An abusive and manipulative relationship, is that what you’re in?
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If you’re stuck in one (or more), the damage has already taken power over you.
Some powerful ways to have your voice, mind-body, and soul be overpowered:
- They want your body more than your voice.
- They want your voice more than your body.
- They have a way to silence you.
- They use your name like a shield / weapon.
- They have and use you for illegal purposes.
- They involve you in crime, drugs, and sales.
- They attack your body, mind and soul.
These ways are alarming signs for being overpowered, something you don’t agree on or don’t want to commit to, deep down, inside. They don’t need consent to overpower you or someone you are connected to.
They just do it.
…without God’s consent.
How do you know if God gives consent?
You feel the grace of it being granted. Rape isn’t graced, it is evil, sick, and the person doing it needs help. The support to change their ways of thinking, and put the work in to adjust.
A rapist doesn’t need to fully complete its purpose of intention, to have ever been a rapist. Most keep repeating until a drastic change happens and takes place, for a shocking turbulation of destruction and change to be met, as momentum.
To turn the page. For them to be stopped.
They can choose to stay rapistic and to be evil again, to keep the sickness alive, but where is the fun in that?
More victims of physical attacks? When they have freedom to change?
With love,
Team FAFR
Message written and published on the 13th of May 2026. ©
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